One of the many advantages of the mediation process is the control that it provides to both parties in determining the outcome. Before beginning a divorce or family law mediation, you can become further empowered by being prepared. At Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, our highly experienced mediators are committed to encouraging you through every phase of the mediation process, to voice your concerns, explain your priorities, and participate in the process of brainstorming potential alternatives. By providing you with information and helping you to understand the legal implications of various outcomes, we can ensure that you command your own destiny. Below, we have provided a list of resources that may help you to feel more prepared for your mediation. Our website is also intended to provide you with the most current and relevant information as it relates to a wide range of divorce and family law matters, as well as answers to common questions that may arise during your journey.
This page serves as a resource center, providing an aggregated list of useful tools, helpful information, and important connections that may serve you through the process. Access the links below to learn more, or contact our Morris County offices at (973) 840-8970 for a cost-free consultation.
New Jersey Divorce and Family Law Mediation Resources
Family Mediation Resources
Preparing for Family Mediation, The American Bar Association
Model Standards of Practice for Family and Divorce Mediation, Association of Family and Conciliation Courts
Model Standards of Conduct for Mediators; American Bar Association, American Arbitration Association, and Association for Conflict Resolution
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Website of the Step Families of America
Books for Adults:
The Divorce Mediation Handbook: Everything You Need to Know, Paula James
Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After, Katherine Woodward Thomas
Crazy Time: Surviving Divorce and Building a New Life, Abigail Trafford
Resources for Parents
Websites:
Books for Parents:
Putting Children First, Joanne Pedro-Carroll
Mom’s House, Dad’s House, Isolini Ricci
Difficult Questions Kids Ask and Are Afraid to Ask About Divorce, Meg F. Schneider and Joan Zuckerberg
Divorce Book For Parents, Vicki Lansky
Books for Children
Preschool
It’s Not Your Fault, Koko Bear, Vicki Lansky
Elementary
Why Are We Getting a Divorce?, Peter Mayle
Teenagers
Divorce Helpbook for Teens, Cynthia MacGregor
Contact our New Jersey Divorce and Family Law Mediators for More Information
If you are considering mediation as an alternative to traditional litigation for your divorce, or simply want to learn more about your options, contact our New Jersey divorce and family law mediators for a cost-free consultation. We have two convenient office locations in Bergen and Morris counties. Contact us in Hackensack, Bergen County at 201-897-6670 or Morristown, Morris County at 973-975-0476 to schedule your free mediation consultation today.