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Divorce can be one of the most frustrating and overwhelming processes, especially if you are dealing with an uncooperative or absent spouse. A common question petitioners ask is whether they can get divorced without their spouse’s approval or consent. While it is possible to proceed with the divorce without your spouse’s signature, it can make…

When parents in New Jersey go through a separation or divorce, one of the most challenging and emotional issues that they will face is determining custody arrangements for their minor children. In some cases, the children involved will express a strong opinion about custody. As a parent, you may be wondering whether your kid can…

If you and your spouse are considering divorce but are not quite ready to pull the trigger, you may decide to separate for a time to figure out what you want moving forward. Separation agreements, while not required in New Jersey, can be beneficial during this tumultuous time and provide spouses with a sense of…

Starting over after a divorce can be tough. Even if you can put aside your emotions and convince yourself that you’ve done the right thing, living on your own is going to be tough. Taking some steps to prepare yourself for your new life can make a big difference though. One thing our Morris County,…

We would like to welcome the newest attorney at Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, L.L.C., Dean T. Bennett. Dean brings an impressive 30-plus years of family law experience to our firm. Before joining our team, he served as the designated public defender for the City of Summit, New Jersey Bar Foundation. Here, he was frequently appointed…

Getting a divorce can require quite a bit of paperwork, so it’s a good idea to know what kinds of documents you’ll need to gather before you get the process started. Our Morris County, NJ divorce lawyers can help you figure out what kinds of documents you need and make sure that filing for divorce…

Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, L.L.C. is happy to welcome Michael J. Fleres as our newest attorney. Michael is a family law attorney focusing on divorce, child custody, child support, alimony, equitable distribution, and domestic violence. Of note, he also has experience representing military members in family law matters unique to their service obligations. Michael is…

We are thrilled to introduce Danielle M. Key as the newest attorney on the Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, L.L.C. team. Danielle is a family and criminal defense attorney who started her career with Legal Services of New Jersey. Since then, in 2013, she opened her own firm, Key Law Center. She took on a partner…

When you and your spouse get a divorce, the marital property you share is going to have to be split up. Some are surprised to learn that this often includes retirement savings and benefits. Our New Jersey dividing retirement assets lawyers can help you figure out how this process works and ensure that you do…

You have rights as a parent, and they still apply even if you get a divorce. You and your ex need to cooperate, share parenting time, and share big decisions. If you think that your rights as a parent are being ignored or that your divorce agreement is being violated, you need to take action.…

Before you get divorced in New Jersey, you have to make sure that you have met the legal requirements to file your paperwork. Fortunately, these requirements are not too complex, and our Morris County, NJ divorce lawyers can tell you exactly what you need to do. What Are the Requirements To Get Divorced in New…

Going through a divorce is probably not going to be a pleasant experience, but you can take steps to protect yourself and avoid some of the common financial mistakes that trip up couples as they separate. Our Morris County, NJ division of assets attorneys can help you fight for a fair divorce agreement and sidestep…

A divorce can be complicated enough without other legal processes interfering. That’s why it can be tough to deal with a spouse who files for bankruptcy during your divorce. This can cause a variety of issues and is sure to delay the settlement of your divorce. Our Morris County, NJ division of assets attorneys can…

Congratulations to the lawyers at Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark who have been honored and listed as New Jersey Super Lawyers and Rising Stars, as published by Thomson Reuters for 2025. Super Lawyers Honorees: John E. Clancy, Esq. Grace Eisenberg, Esq. Laurie L. Newmark, Esq. Angela M. Scafuri, Esq. Dominic A. Tomaio, Esq. Paul H. Townsend,…

You probably know that your property needs to be split up during a divorce, but did you know that your joint debts have to be dealt with in the same way? If you and your spouse share any debt, that needs to be addressed during the divorce process. Our Morris County, NJ division of assets…

Child support is meant to cover a wide range of expenses. If it’s necessary to keep your child safe and happy, it’s probably something that your child support should be helping with. Our Morris County, NJ child support attorneys can help you negotiate a fair arrangement or modify an existing child support agreement. What Should…

It’s understandable if you don’t want to spend a lot of time on the divorce process. You shouldn’t rush into an agreement, but you can get a fast divorce if you are well-prepared and willing to try out alternatives to the courtroom. Our Morris County uncontested divorce attorneys can help you find ways to ensure…

Most of the time, a court believes that maintaining a relationship with both parents is in the children's best interest when a divorce occurs. When parents live close to each other, it can make it easy to make a custody arrangement. Maybe one parent has primary custody and the other gets to visit on a…

Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements are sometimes seen in a bad light, but the bottom line is that these documents can be great ways for you and your spouse to protect yourselves and your finances if you get divorced. If you are thinking about asking your spouse for a postnuptial agreement, you should be careful about…

There are a lot of issues to discuss when you get a divorce, and if you and your spouse cannot come to an agreement on key issues you are going to have to go to trial. It’s a good idea to know what to expect and how you can minimize the time spent, and money…

It can feel like a gut punch when your spouse files for divorce unexpectedly, especially when you thought that there was going to be an attempt to work things out. Unfortunately, you cannot just ignore the divorce papers and hope that the problem will go away. You need to respond, and you should really have…

Angela M. Scafuri will speak at a New Jersey State Bar Association (NJSBA) program titled, “WIPS Bada$$ Women Roundtable.” Alongside other Women in the Profession Section (WIPS) officers, Ms. Scafuri will touch on personal experiences and discuss ways to make a career and life path that is successful and fulfilling, all while maintaining authenticity and…

Many types of professionals can help out during the divorce process and ensure that both spouses get fair treatment. One professional who can be especially helpful is a forensic accountant. Even if you do not think that you have enough assets to need an accountant, hiring one might still be a good idea. Our Morris…

You may not have to go to court to settle your divorce and come to a final agreement with your soon-to-be ex-spouse. There are other ways to solve your problems, including divorce mediation. Our Morristown divorce mediation lawyers can help you figure out if this is a good option for you and then we’ll help…

A prenuptial agreement can be a useful way to protect each party’s assets and reduce the number of complications that a divorce can bring with it. However, it’s important to realize that these documents need to stand up to scrutiny. You or your spouse can challenge a prenup if you split up and there are…

Many divorcing couples try to solve their issues through litigation, but you don’t have to go to court to solve every conflict. Alternatives like divorce arbitration could end up being a better option for you, especially if you want the proceedings to be confidential. Our Morris County, NJ divorce lawyers can tell you more about…

We are excited to announce that Cynthia J. Lambo, Esq. recently joined the team at Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, L.L.C. Cynthia has been committed to the practice of family law since the beginning of her career as a law clerk in 2002. Since then, she has been a panelist for the Early Settlement Panel in…

If you are getting a divorce because you are a victim of domestic violence, it’s important to know how this history might affect the negotiations. Our Morris County, NJ domestic abuse lawyers can help you pursue a divorce, negotiate for a fair agreement, and ask for temporary restraining orders or other protective measures when needed.…

Sometimes litigation isn’t the best way to solve all of the issues facing a couple in a divorce. Alternative methods like mediation can help two people come to fair agreements on tough topics like child custody, property division, alimony, and more. Some serious effort needs to be made by both parties during mediation sessions though.…

When you get divorced, the marital property needs to be split up. Anything that you and your spouse own together gets divided up in an equitable way, but there are some items that can cause confusion here. One common sticking point is the engagement ring. Who does it belong to after you get divorced? Our…

If you want to settle all of the disagreements you and your spouse have in divorce court, you can do that. There are other options though, including a collaborative divorce where you can work together to reach a conclusion. A collaborative divorce team is more than just you, your spouse, and your lawyers. There are…

If you are divorcing your spouse, you know that your property will have to be divided up. Does this mean that you have to divide up your business as well? It could, but there are ways to protect a business and its assets in a divorce. Our Morris County, NJ division of assets attorneys can…

Working out a child custody and visitation schedule can be difficult enough, but then you have to throw holidays into the mix? Fortunately, there are some things that you can do to make it easier to set up a holiday schedule that you and your ex can stick to. Our Morris County, NJ child custody…

Your child support is meant to cover all of the various expenses that come with raising a child. Does that mean that these payments from your ex can also help with your car insurance premiums? Our Morris County, NJ child support attorneys would argue that this is not a bad use of those funds. Is…

Many people believe that child support agreements end when a child turns 18. They are an adult, so they don’t need support anymore, right? That’s not really how this works though. Our Morris County, NJ child support attorneys can tell you why most agreements last longer. When Can Child Support Agreements Be Extended? Child support…

Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, L.L.C. is excited to welcome Eric A. Parisi, Esq. as the newest attorney in our family. Eric brings to the table decades of experience as a licensed attorney in New Jersey and Pennsylvania. Specifically, before joining TTN, he practiced divorce and family law with a boutique firm in Hudson County, New…

Child support is meant to cover many of the expenses associated with caring for a child, but what happens when an extraordinary cost arises? A common source of expenses for children is orthodontic work, like braces. Does the non-custodial parent have to pay for that too? The answer is usually yes, but there are some…

Divorce can be an expensive process, so it’s understandable that people don’t want to start shelling out money before they have even filed the necessary paperwork. It’s important to meet with a lawyer and protect your interests, but shopping around for a lawyer can get expensive quickly if they charge for meetings. Fortunately, our firm…

Some states set a specific age for when a child is legally emancipated. New Jersey does not, which can complicate matters like child support agreements. Fortunately, there are now some clear laws on the books about when a child becomes emancipated. A lawyer from our firm can tell divorced parents what they need to know…

A divorce can go on for a while, so this sometimes leads to our clients asking us if they can go out on dates while their agreement is finalized. Dating is allowed, but it can interfere with an ongoing divorce in a few ways. A lot of this depends on how your divorce is going…

Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, L.L.C. is pleased to announce Anna Maria Petracca, Esq. as the newest attorney of our family. Before joining the TTN team in August 2024, Anna had 15 years of legal experience in the United States and abroad. Namely, she practiced law in Italy for seven years. Anna was previously a legal…

If you inherit money or a piece of property while you are married, are those assets up for grabs if you get a divorce? Usually, an inheritance is protected, but there are actions that you can take or mistakes that you can make that could make it harder to protect these assets when property has…

Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, L.L.C. is thrilled to welcome Marlene Bonet as the newest law clerk to our family. Before joining the TTN team, Marlene worked at several other law firms conducting research; drafting complaints, agreements, motions, briefs, and certifications; and preparing for trials for partners in various areas of law. Additionally, she interned and…

When you finalize your divorce agreement, spousal support or alimony is a part of that. It’s decided who is going to pay who, how much will be paid, and for how long. However, sometimes circumstances change and the old agreement really does not hold up due to recent life events. This is when you can…

An uncontested divorce often takes far less time to get finalized than a contested divorce would, but there is still a lot of work that needs to be done. Our Morris County uncontested divorce attorneys can advise you on the process and let you know more about what you should expect. What Are the Steps…

If you and your spouse are getting a divorce and think that you can handle things amicably, you may be thinking that there’s no need to hire two lawyers. Just hire one for the both of you and have them look over everything to make it all legal. This is rarely a good idea. You…

Angela M. Scafuri is set to be a presenter at New Attorney Day, a program designed by the New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education (NJICLE), a division of the New Jersey State Bar Association (NJSBA). Specifically, Ms. Scafuri will speak at the Introduction to Family Law webinar among other notable New Jersey attorneys, and…

When you are ready to begin the divorce process, our Morris County, NJ divorce lawyers are ready to assist you. Preparing for a divorce can take quite a bit of work, but we can help you with the first steps. This is how you can begin the process. How Do I Start the Divorce Process?…

When you have a child, you should be paying money to support them. That’s how the courts in New Jersey tend to see it, and that opinion holds whether you are married or dating the other parent of your child or if your relationship has ended. Our Morris County, NJ child support attorneys can help…

When you write a prenup, or prenuptial agreement, you and your spouse can come to an agreement in advance about how many of your potential conflicts will be solved if you were to get a divorce. No one wants to think about divorce before walking down the aisle, but this document can protect you and…

When courts consider arguments for child custody, the parent’s interests and needs are not the top priority. Instead, the judge wants to do what is in the best interest of the child. This means that the custody agreement has to be made with their health and happiness in mind. Our Morris County, NJ child custody…

We are proud to announce that two of our distinguished attorneys have been selected for inclusion in the 2025 edition of Best Lawyers, a testament to their dedication, skill, and excellence in the field of family law. John E. Clancy has been recognized in Best Lawyers for his outstanding contributions to Family Law. His commitment…

We are proud to announce that Nicole A. Cioffi, an esteemed attorney here at Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, has been selected for inclusion in the 2025 Edition of Best Lawyers: Ones to Watch in America for her exceptional work in Family Law. This recognition marks Nicole's continued excellence in the legal profession, having been honored…

When one parent tries to turn their children against their former spouse, the courts can step in. Parental alienation can deprive a child of healthy relationships with both of their parents, and the court often believes that having good relationships with both parents is in the best interests of the child. If you think that…

When you receive child support payments or send them, you may be wondering if they are treated like any other expense or income. Does the IRS or state treasury have any interest in the payments you give to or get from your spouse? The answer is generally no, but having kids and being divorced can…

Your divorce records are important, and you cannot just get rid of them because you are tired of being reminded of that time in your life. These records still have some important uses, and you’ll definitely be annoyed if you do not have them when you end up needing them. Here’s some advice on the…

It can be hard to guess how long your divorce will take to get finalized. Our Morris County, NJ divorce lawyers can guide you through the process and tell you how you may be able to speed up the dissolution of your marriage though. If there is a way to save time or an issue…

There are a few different ways for divorcing couples to come to an agreement on matters relating to their marriage and its dissolution, but can you be forced to try specific methods of conflict resolution? You can in New Jersey. When you ask a judge to settle things for you, they might instead order you…

What can you do if you disagree with a family law decision? You can file an appeal. Our New Jersey divorce and family law attorneys can help you with this, but it’s also important to know when filing an appeal is worthwhile. You should talk things out with an attorney and carefully weigh your options…

When you get a divorce, your assets and properties need to be split up. It’s often one of the more contentious parts of the process, so it’s important to know what to expect going in. The goal of the state is not to split things up 50/50. Instead the court will use an equitable distribution…

If you are currently embroiled in fights about custody arrangements, you may be wondering if your child’s preference can make a difference. If your child prefers your home, that can definitely be a factor. However, it is far from the only factor the court will consider. If you want to make a more convincing argument,…

Going from single to married to divorced is sure to affect your taxes, so it makes sense that many newly divorced people have questions about how their status will affect them come tax time. This is especially relevant for those who will be receiving some kind of payment from their former spouse as a part…

When you pay child support, you know that it’s supposed to cover a portion of your child’s expenses. Does this include medical expenses? It does, but matters can get a bit complicated when expenses exceed expectations and some other factors, like who has health insurance, may affect your child support arrangement. Fortunately, our Morris County,…

When you are a noncustodial parent, you know that you’ll have to pay child support until your child is legally considered an adult. What happens if they go to school for a bachelor’s degree though? Do you have to pay for college costs as well? A court can order you to pay some of these…

Most of the time when people think of custody arrangements, they think of one parent having the kids most of the time and the other getting visitation rights for select weekdays, weekends, and holidays. However, it is possible to ask for a 50/50 custody arrangement in which both parents spend equal time with the kids.…

There are many things to think about before you decide to file for a divorce. One thing that some people don’t carefully consider is whether or not they can afford it. A divorce can be quite expensive. If your breakup is contentious and you and your spouse are going to argue over everything, then it’s…

We are thrilled to announce that Angela M. Scafuri was nominated for Vice Chair of the New Jersey State Bar Association (NJSBA) Women in the Profession Section. This determination was made by the NJSBA Nominating Committee for Leadership Positions in The Section, and the term is set to run until May 2025. Of note, Ms.…

There are many matters that you and your spouse are going to have to agree on before your divorce can be finalized. Going through the courts to solve every issue can be expensive, and after all of that you could end up having a judge make decisions that make both parties unhappy. This is why…

We are excited to announce that Angela M. Scafuri will be speaking at the New Jersey State Bar Association’s Annual Meeting on a CLE panel. The panel is called “Challenging Situations With Clients Involving Cultural Sensitivity,” and is happening on Thursday, 5/16. Click here for the full list of CLE seminars and speakers.

When you divorce and have children, you need a child custody plan. When you have pets, you might need a pet custody plan. Due to how the law differs in its treatment of children and animals though, you and your spouse are probably going to have to come together and make this kind of agreement…

When people split custody of their children after a divorce, most end up in their own living space, and the kids go back and forth, depending on who has custody of them. A nesting arrangement works a bit differently. Our Morris County, NJ child custody attorneys can tell you if it might be a good…

You have to file in the right state when you want a divorce. That’s a simple matter for many couples, but it can get complicated in a military divorce. Armed armed forces members can get moved to different bases or deployed overseas. You could be stuck if you’re unsure which state to file for divorce.…

When you get a divorce in New Jersey, you can decide to file for a fault-based divorce. You can give a specific reason why your marriage is ending and why you are filing. You don’t have to do this though, even when there is a good reason to ask for a divorce. Our Morris County,…

When parents divorce, the court wants both parents to contribute to the needs of the children. If you are a non-custodial parent, chances are that you are going to have to pay child support. So what happens if you suddenly find yourself unable to pay child support? Just stopping payments is rarely a good idea.…

If you are going through a divorce and you believe that your spouse has a substance abuse problem, that can be worrying. It can be especially worrying if you have children and you are concerned about custody and visitation. If you want to show the court that your spouse has an issue that they need…

If you cannot afford to pay alimony, you have a problem. You made an agreement to pay a certain amount after your divorce concluded and you can be punished through the legal system if you do not make good on your end of that agreement. However, circumstances change and the court can be made to…

Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark is honored to announce that seven of our partners have been named as New Jersey Super Lawyers as published by Thomson Reuters for 2024. All seven partners handle all Divorce and Family Law Matters. Congratulations to all! (No aspect of this advertisement has been approved by the Supreme Court of New…

After a divorce, one parent can end up being the custodial parent. This means that the kids live with them most of the time. The other parent then has to make child support payments. How much these payments can be depends on a number of factors, including the number of children that you have. It…

When you divorce, all of your assets need to be divided up. This includes digital ones, including cryptocurrency. The law is not always great at keeping up with the latest technological advances, but we can say that for sure. If you or your spouse have invested in cryptocurrency, or “crypto” for short, it’s going to…

You know that going through a divorce means that property will have to be divided up, but how does this apply to gifts that both spouses have received? Fortunately, you should be able to keep most of the items you received as gifts during your marriage after your divorce goes through. There are some potentially…

Dividing up everything you own together can be one of the most difficult parts of the divorce process, and one thing that can really complicate matters is a mortgage. If you’re still paying off your home, what should you do? You have some options, and our Morris County, NJ divorce lawyers can help you pick…

Deciding who should have custody of the children after a divorce can be a complicated process. If there are special needs children involved, there may be even more considerations to make before awarding custody to one parent and developing a child support agreement. If you believe that you should be the primary caretaker for your…

Financial stability is a factor when the court makes custody decisions, but do not worry if your spouse has more money and riches than you. This is not going to be the only factor considered when custody decisions are being made. You can still be in your child’s life or gain primary custody even if…

If you are going through a divorce, you probably already understand that you and your spouse’s assets are going to be split up. However, many people are often confused about exactly what kinds of assets can actually be divided up during divorce. What about stock options from your job? You earned them, but some could…

A divorce agreement often stipulates that one person has to pay their former partner spousal support, also known as alimony. If you are the payor, you cannot simply decide that you are not paying alimony anymore. There are consequences for skipping out on this obligation, and some are quite harsh. Instead of ignoring a court…

A parenting plan is a necessity for any former couple who is trying to co-parent after a divorce. A written plan can make it easier for both parents to have input on the major decisions in the lives of their children. Our Morris County, NJ child custody attorneys can help you work out a plan…

TTN is pleased to announce that Laurie Newmark, Esq. has been approved to the NJ Judiciary Roster of Statewide Approved Parenting Coordinators and is now accepting parent coordinator cases. Of note, the NJ Parenting Coordinator Program is intended to help parents implement their parenting plan and resolve day-to-day parenting issues with the assistance of a…

If you are the custodial parent, you cannot just refuse visitation to your children’s other parent for no reason. Even if you think that you have a good reason for keeping your children away from your former partner, doing it without going to court first can land you in hot water. Our Morris County, NJ…

After a divorce, both parents have the right to spend time with their children. However, sometimes there are situations in which one parent should not be left alone with their kids. This is when the court can demand supervised visitation. Whether you are the custodial parent or the one who gets visitation rights, our Morris…

If your partner is paying child support, you probably want to know exactly what those payments are meant to cover. If you’re a working parent, one chief concern is probably daycare costs. Fortunately, your child support arrangement can be calculated with these expenses in mind. Our Morris County, NJ child support attorneys can help you…

A same-sex divorce is similar to a divorce between a straight couple, but there are some elements of a same-sex relationship that could complicate matters. That is why it is a good idea to consult with our Morris County, NJ divorce lawyers. We can tell you more about how you can protect yourself and your…

After a divorce, one spouse usually ends up making alimony payments. There is no set way to calculate exactly how much alimony should be paid, nor are there too many completely definitive rules about how long an alimony agreement should last. As a result, courts have a lot of latitude when setting alimony, so it’s…

Many divorces can get nasty, but an uncontested divorce probably won’t. This is because couples in an uncontested divorce are actually able to negotiate with each other so that they can come to some agreements on key tenets of their divorce settlement. If you are on good enough terms to negotiate with your spouse, that’s…

Temporary orders are just what they sound like. They are orders that are generally meant to be adhered to for as long as the divorce takes. Even a relatively amicable divorce can take a while to complete. In the meantime, you need to figure out who can live in the house, who can use which…

A divorce can be a complex process, which means that it can be easy to overlook some things and make errors that can be sources of additional stress later on. That is why we recommend talking to our Morris County, NJ divorce lawyers before you really get into this process. We can help you protect…

Going through a divorce can be stressful for anyone, but it can be especially difficult when children are involved. If you are looking for ways to look out for your child during the divorce and keep them protected from some of the worst parts of the process, our Morris County, NJ divorce lawyers can help…

Domestic violence can certainly be brought up when you and your spouse are arguing over alimony. If your spouse abused you and then asks for alimony, you can try to make a case that they do not deserve spousal support because of their history. Our Morris County, NJ alimony and spousal support lawyers may be…

An alimony agreement is often made with the financial situations of both spouses in mind. So if something major changes, like someone losing their job, shouldn’t that affect the agreement? A job loss can be grounds for modifying an existing agreement, but you should not automatically assume that you can stop paying alimony just because…

Signing a prenuptial agreement is a big decision. Even presenting your partner with one can be a nerve-racking experience, although this can probably mostly be blamed on the reputation these documents have picked up thanks to TV and movies. A prenup does not mean that you do not trust your partner though. It can be…

It is rare that a spouse who is on disability would end up paying alimony. These payments are meant as spousal support, and it seems hard to believe that someone who cannot work would have to support someone else who is capable of supporting themselves. Still, there are some ways that disability can affect your…