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How You Should Navigate Your Divorce in Your 20s in New Jersey

A divorce is a heartbreaking process at any age. If you are going through a divorce in your 20s, continue reading to learn about the steps you should take and reach out to one of our dedicated Morris County NJ divorce lawyers today.

What steps should you take when going through a divorce in your 20s?

Fix Your Finances

No matter how old you are, financial issues are commonly present in divorces. It is important to recognize that Gen Z and younger millennials (18-24) have an average of $22,000 in debt, which mostly originates from student loans and other collegiate expenses.

Though, if you purchased a home with your former spouse or shared other expenses, you might have more debt tacked on to this separation.

The best you can do for yourself is to focus on putting a stop to your debt and finding financial stability. Some advice to help you with this include the following:

  • Making a budget
  • Cutting things out that you don’t use anymore
  • Downsizing/selling your marital home
  • Paying off your largest debts first

Find Your Support System

The divorce process is never easy. Especially if you are in your 20s, it is easy to feel as though you have failed or you have been rejected. Additionally, many of your friends could have just started their marriage journeys.

It is important that you recognize the normalcy of grieving after your divorce in your 20s. The stages of grief include the following:

  • Denial
  • Anger
  • Bargaining
  • Depression
  • Acceptance

While grief can look different for everyone, it is likely that you will experience some level of these stages throughout and after your divorce.

You will want to make sure you are not going through this process alone. Even if you know getting a divorce was the right thing to do, or you were tired of being in an unhappy relationship, it is important that you lean on friends and family for support. You can also reach out to groups online or in-person of people who are going through a similar situation. If you are really struggling, you might even think about going to a therapist or counselor.

If you would like to learn more about how you can cope with getting a divorce in your 20s, it is encouraged that you retain the services of skilled Morris County NJ divorce lawyers to have on your side throughout this challenging time.

CONTACT OUR FIRM

At Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, LLC, our seasoned divorce and family law attorneys ensure that through the process of resolving your family matter, you feel empowered, not overwhelmed. Providing unwavering support, undivided attention, and unflinching advocacy, our team invests in your cause, working tirelessly to pave your path toward a brighter tomorrow. If you need an experienced legal team to guide you through your divorce, contact Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark L.L.C today.

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