When it comes to seeking legal advice, especially in family or matrimonial matters, the recommendations I’d give are multi-faceted. Choosing the right attorney is one of the most important decisions you’ll make, and it can greatly impact the outcome of your case.
First and foremost, you must have a matrimonial attorney. You simply can’t work with someone who only dabbles in family law. It just doesn’t work. An attorney without focused experience will likely miss important nuances, overlook critical details, and may not fully understand how the system works.
Once you’ve found a dedicated family lawyer, make sure that your attorney has the time for you. Ask yourself: is he or she a solo practitioner? If so, you might not always be the number one on that attorney’s list. Accessibility and responsiveness matter when you’re navigating such a personal and emotional process.
Equally important, you need an attorney who tells you the truth. If your lawyer only tells you what you want to hear, your case will likely take longer, cost more, and leave you feeling tremendously dissatisfied. The best attorneys are honest, even when the truth is difficult to hear.
In my opinion, the single most important quality in an attorney is honesty. A good lawyer doesn’t sugarcoat reality. Instead, they tell you the truth, help you understand your options, and guide you toward informed, objective decisions.
When you have an experienced, truthful attorney who makes time for your case, you’re equipped to move forward confidently, and achieve the best possible outcome for your situation.
At Townsend, Tomaio & Newmark, LLC, our seasoned divorce and family law attorneys ensure that through the process of resolving your family matter, you feel empowered, not overwhelmed. Providing unwavering support, undivided attention, and unflinching advocacy, our team invests in your cause, working tirelessly to pave your path toward a brighter tomorrow.






